“Have you ever heard something so harsh?
My soul remembers her.
Something caused her to be more closed.
As she sit and sue each piece
It startle my heart and gave me more pain
and she thinks it’s over
And she knows my heart is in fear
She end up hurting herself”

After reading “Of the same”, I think both the poet and person in the poem  are both sharing a mutual feeling.   They are both hurt.  He is admiring her from afar.  He is watching her and he see hurt in her face as she sits and sews.  It hurts him to see her sad and he feels that she is hurting herself by thinking about him.